simpson’s bus driver tapping sign meme, about how there are a lot of different types of lawyers, and even for defense attorneys most cases do not go to trial.
To quote LegalEagle: “…the litigators and trial lawyers, the… let’s call them real lawyers. No I don’t want you to think that transactional attorneys aren’t real lawyers, I mean, they’re not real lawyers, but I definitely don’t want you to think that.” (followed by “I am gonna get some very well-worded angry emails from a bunch of transactional attorneys.”) https://youtu.be/UfZgNamKbwc?feature=shared&t=486
My brother and sister are both retirement age lawyers and I’m not sure either of them were ever involved in a criminal case. My son has spent his career putting people in jail and keeping them out of jail. The other seven lawyers in the family were on the spectrum. I escaped, but have been directly involved in more criminal cases than my siblings (witness and juror).
She’ll also never win a jury case even if she manages to select a jury, because rejects little things like ‘tact’ and ‘persuasiveness’. She’d be like Rosa Diaz, “Look, I’m gonna make this REAL simple so even you dumdums can understand…”
I don’t think he’s displaying patience at all, he’s annoyed by her being so blatant about *not* interacting with him, her behavior is making him uncomfortable so he’s trying to confront her about it. Patience would be passively dealing with the annoyance of her behavior and doing nothing about it, he’s actively trying to change the situation to be more tolerable for him.
Funny, that’s how I feel about Sarah in these interactions. She’s being given such clear invitations by a guy she’s on record as attracted to, and even after all she’s been through, she still can’t take the win. She’s so assertive in every other area, increasingly comfortable with expressing love (see: Joyce, Liz), and has none of the sexual hangups of her loved ones (see: Other Jacob). That she falls to pieces and acts like such an asshole on purpose to this one guy who has every reason to dislike her and still lets her in…well, as one of the best fictional characters of the last 5 years put it, “Get out of your own way, man, because this woe-is-me thing you’ve got going on is just fucking ponderous.”
Mentioning “Other Jacob” suddenly makes me realize. She (like most of the cast) really took off on Joe for his objectifying list. How is naming a literal sex object after a specific person any different? Now she is stalking the person she named a sex toy after. Sorry, Imagine the positions reversed. Sarah is just being extremely creepy.
She’s not “stalking” him. As she says they share a schedule and she’s freaked out about interacting with him, which makes it weird, but that’s not stalking.
The sex toy is creepy, but it started as a joke.
And it’s still not nearly the problem that early Joe was.
going to flip this for you. imagine being socially awkward, and you keep telling someone you find intimidating that you don’t feel charismatic to strike up a conversation with them, and they keep insisting you try and then scold you for being a bad conversationalist.
that’s a more accurate description than “she’s stalking him”.
Imagine this really awkward person who never strikes up a conversation with, oogling you like a big ol hunk of meat all the time, and then volunteers to spot for you, only to continue to stare at you like a tasty hunk of meat.
It is. Those are supposed to be short dreads which will leave parts of the scalp exposed from the braid, especially if the hair around them is cut usually a fade.
people have suggested that before. you can tell how accurate it is by how Joe has been too self-concious to even talk to any women and how it’s never been on Sarah’s mind since Jacob brought up being objectified.
you can tell how she forgot by how she’s now too self-conscious to talk to him. When you find someone attractive and intimidating, it means you don’t acknowledge their personhood.
I think Sarah gets criticized too much for her relationship with Jacob. She felt extremely guilty for objectifying him to the point she completely gave up on pursuing him romantically for a while because she felt she didn’t deserve him. Even now she probably feels that way. Her antisocial traits are only even a problem because Jacob actually likes her and wants a real relationship with her which I think is ignored a bit here in the comments. It wouldn’t be difficult to avoid here if he was truly as creeped out as he says. He’s trying to break her walls to form a real connection. That’s why this keeps coming up.
In my personal opinion, she doesn’t deserve him. She has been manipulative to him directly and indirectly and has even been (rightly) called out for objectifying him. By all accounts, she is the one who keeps setting herself up in these antisocial situations and he is doing his best to ease that and she reacts in extremely negative ways. Does she even deserve this much patience from him? Any relationship they form seems like it would be emotionally abusive.
She does objectify him and that is a problem but I don’t see it as the real problem. Jacob doesn’t have to give her the time of day, he chooses to. Because he likes her. Sarah just doesn’t like herself enough to be unguarded around a great guy like Jacob so she defaults to staring at him and keeping distance. I think Sarah doesn’t get any empathy because her personality is awful, but she’s really just a shy girl with a crush here and that’s pretty relatable to me.
I also don’t like taking away Jacob’s agency. He is trying to pursue some kind of deeper relationship with Sarah. He doesn’t have to walk near her just cause they’re going to the same class. I doubt she was intentionally stalking him. He’s just not letting Sarah get away with being shy because he wants to be her friend. It’s just not working well.
Almost every instance of him trying to open up to Sarah since the timeskip has been met with “Shut up, busy looking at my eye candy.” She absolutely reduces his personhood. His very first appearance after the timeskip, the first time we’d seen him in years, was to hear Sarah say “Hey, remember how I pointed a Joyce-shaped cruise missile at you and Raidah? Mind being that cruise missile for my own emotional gratifucation again?”
Jacob is free to like or dislike Sarah, they’re fictional characters. But fucking miss me with “She’s just nervous,” when she’s clearly not too nervous to stand over him and stare at him while he’s working out, explicitly shooting down every attempt at conversation.
To elaborate on / clarify my point: I have genuine sympathy for all the folks who are waiting impatiently for an emotional catharsis (in this case, Jacob telling Sarah to go fuck herself and leave him alone forever) that just isn’t going to happen.
As someone who was once (well, thrice) a shy guy with a crush, I offer another possible factor: I didn’t know how to approach someone I was attracted to, and just froze up. It was awful. It took a long time to figure it out.
I have mixed feelings about the aggressive pathologization of “creepiness”. On the one hand, absolutely the worst guys on the internet and real life started claiming it was a slur and the worst thing you could accuse a guy of being, which is… revealing, heh.
But on the other, absolutely there ARE a lot of perfectly benign shy people with social anxiety who were already constantly second guessing themselves and worrying about how they came across and worrying about the impact just passively crushing on someone might have on the other person — and those folks did not need more ammo for their self-doubt. 😞
that’s def something she needs to reflect on, jacob did mention it when she and joyce had lunch with him but at this point, he can’t be the only attractive person on campus sarah can tolerate it’d be easiest for her to move on and find osmeon to have a fling with
personality aside, i think she prefers someone taller/buffer b/c she wants them to be an ‘obstacle course’ (which also is kinda objectifying but i imagine there would be some guys into it/wouldn’t mind), tho dang even if she somehow admitted that walky was hot i imagine walky would stay far away from her lol
I think she’s said as much, though I might be confusing her with someone else (there is So Much DoA). Something about wanting to climb her boys like trees and not being so much a fan of boys climbing her like one.
Then again, she’s only like this around Jacob, therefore we can assume it is caused by something about Jacob *as a person*. He’s not the only hot dude on campus, after all.
“The way she accuses Joe”? Is that different from the way we saw early Joe treat women?
And no, she really doesn’t. She does objectify him and that is clearly treated as a character flaw, but she’s not aggressive about it as Joe was. She doesn’t show up out of nowhere to tell a stranger how much she wants to fuck him – as Rachel phrased it.
Yeah, that was some seriously fucked-up behavior Joe was engaging in months ago. Behavior for which he has apologized and he is actively attempting to better, but Sarah think she can declare that a mistake is forever.
Tall Rachel, Sarah, fucking Bloodrose, Joyce herself, none of these characters are required to accept Joe’s apology or spend time with him, and none of them do. Except Joyce, who has accepted Joe’s apology, who is interested in seeing how he grows as a person/character, and as far as we’ve seen he hasn’t gone looking for Sarah or Tall Rachel to try to get them to accept him. He just is in Sarah’s vicinity by coincidence and she hauls off and says “No, he cannot be forgiven.”
I really like the details on the back like the shoulder blades and the spine bit. I also appreciate that she looks like a real human with real human amounts of fat and real human proportions. Thanks Yotomoe
Calm down, the majority of the characters on this strip has acted like garbage humans at one point or another. That is kind of one of the points of this strip.
Sarah has gone from being someone who was standoffish and private to someone who actively and knowingly hates any form of emotional connection to anyone else.
I wonder if this connects to Radiah’s belief she kicked out her roommate for reasons other than concern for her mental health.
You know what really gets old? Someone self-aware enough to realize this ( especially when openly stated to them ) constantly putting themselves in this position and expecting the other to just accept it when they’re brain locks up.
other than someone having a crush on a friend, not that i came across ppl super attractive to where i’d be flustered just being near them in highschool i’d prolly actually avoid them or stay outta their way bc they’d prolly be the ‘popular’ type that’d have their own group of friends anyway, even in a non ‘fangirls following’ anime cliche type of thing XD
Some of it is probably that, but it comes up with Sarah because she goes farther than that. Focusing on him just for his body, while not being able to talk to him and ignoring his explicitly stated dislike of that.
Not all sexual attraction is like that and we don’t get that reaction to other cases of sexual attraction in the comic.
I mean. But MOST of Sarah’s objectifying has stayed in the privacy of her own head, or at least far away from Jacob. (And tbqh I am not really convinced that Sarah actually thinks of her vibrator as Other Jacob, I kiiiind of think that was just something she said to convey her intention to fantasize about him to Joyce, which has now become a running joke.)
So far we’ve had the one instance where her staring at and drooling over him was obvious enough for him to notice, and he asked her politely to knock it off. We will see how she ultimately responds to this criticism in the future, and that will say a lot about her respect for his boundaries.
But in the meantime, yeah, there’s a real Neo Puritan streak running through this comment section — lots of hand-wringing about masturbating anywhere but the privacy of your own bedroom, and characters getting lambasted for being too openly interested in sex. Just recently it seemed like Lucy was getting an unreasonable amount of flack for being too enthusiastic about sleeping with Walky.
(No one directly called her a slut or anything, but there was a lot of baseless speculation about how she was using him and didn’t care about his feelings, instead of… being caught up in her OWN feelings and a bit oblivious to the anxieties Walky was deliberately hiding from her.)
But no, genuinely the wider trend is definitely Neo Puritan. Loads of young folk have gotten very comfortable with asserting that all public spaces should be Family Friendly by default, even if those spaces have a clearly posted age restriction, because the need to protect children’s innocence should be prioritized over everything else, and mostly seeming not to realize that “obscenity” and “inappropriate for children” was always going to mean “even the most vanilla transgression, like simply being trans or holding your non-pericishetero, gender-nonconforming partner’s hand in public”.
The wider trend is just also evident in this comment section, where Sarah is sexually harassing Jacob now just by being in his presence while sexually attracted to him.
In the comic at the top of this page, Jacob says Sarah’s behavior makes him uncomfortable. She is continuing to view him as a pretty purely sexual object, like he described in the strip you linked at me, and when he tries to do something more about, because Sarah again told him she’s not interested in talking to him, just lusting after him, she bolts.
But please, tell me more how I’m a Puritan for agreeing with someone who is saying “I am feeling objectified.”
if you see today’s strip as her objectifying him, then yes, you’re acting like a puriteen. “She is continuing to view him as a pretty purely sexual object” you made that up.
And then treating objectifying someone in your own head the same as harassing them in real life. It feels like some people think Jacob has been reading the comic and knows everything he wasn’t there for.
It doesn’t help that it’s also half full of people who just flat out hate Sarah.
+1 to this. Absolutely also where I’m at. It’s as if that time in class where she started fantasizing about him instead of listening had involved her grabbing him by the front of his shirt to tell him her graphic thoughts or demand he make them a reality, instead of… something she clearly felt embarrassed about after she tuned back in and realized she’d lost track of the conversation.
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“eye contact, my weaknesssssss”
She’s going to be a great lawyer someday. Juror selection will be a scream, she’ll reject any who are too hot for her to look at or speak to.
simpson’s bus driver tapping sign meme, about how there are a lot of different types of lawyers, and even for defense attorneys most cases do not go to trial.
To quote LegalEagle: “…the litigators and trial lawyers, the… let’s call them real lawyers. No I don’t want you to think that transactional attorneys aren’t real lawyers, I mean, they’re not real lawyers, but I definitely don’t want you to think that.” (followed by “I am gonna get some very well-worded angry emails from a bunch of transactional attorneys.”)
https://youtu.be/UfZgNamKbwc?feature=shared&t=486
My brother and sister are both retirement age lawyers and I’m not sure either of them were ever involved in a criminal case. My son has spent his career putting people in jail and keeping them out of jail. The other seven lawyers in the family were on the spectrum. I escaped, but have been directly involved in more criminal cases than my siblings (witness and juror).
She’ll also never win a jury case even if she manages to select a jury, because rejects little things like ‘tact’ and ‘persuasiveness’. She’d be like Rosa Diaz, “Look, I’m gonna make this REAL simple so even you dumdums can understand…”
Brave Sa-rah ran away!
Bravely ran away – away!
When Jacob reared his pretty head,
she bravely turned her tail and fled…
She liked to gaze upon his tail,
But conversation? Epic fail!
This won the Internets. Neil Innes would be proud.
I mean my weakness too 😵💫
Called her out
BOOOO
Is Jacob even human, the amount of patience he’s displaying is otherworldly
They say that the anger of a kind person is extremely dangerous…and we may see that in Jacob in the future.
I hope so because at the moment he seems less like a real person and more like an idealised caricature
I don’t think he’s displaying patience at all, he’s annoyed by her being so blatant about *not* interacting with him, her behavior is making him uncomfortable so he’s trying to confront her about it. Patience would be passively dealing with the annoyance of her behavior and doing nothing about it, he’s actively trying to change the situation to be more tolerable for him.
Funny, that’s how I feel about Sarah in these interactions. She’s being given such clear invitations by a guy she’s on record as attracted to, and even after all she’s been through, she still can’t take the win. She’s so assertive in every other area, increasingly comfortable with expressing love (see: Joyce, Liz), and has none of the sexual hangups of her loved ones (see: Other Jacob). That she falls to pieces and acts like such an asshole on purpose to this one guy who has every reason to dislike her and still lets her in…well, as one of the best fictional characters of the last 5 years put it, “Get out of your own way, man, because this woe-is-me thing you’ve got going on is just fucking ponderous.”
Mentioning “Other Jacob” suddenly makes me realize. She (like most of the cast) really took off on Joe for his objectifying list. How is naming a literal sex object after a specific person any different? Now she is stalking the person she named a sex toy after. Sorry, Imagine the positions reversed. Sarah is just being extremely creepy.
She’s not “stalking” him. As she says they share a schedule and she’s freaked out about interacting with him, which makes it weird, but that’s not stalking.
The sex toy is creepy, but it started as a joke.
And it’s still not nearly the problem that early Joe was.
going to flip this for you. imagine being socially awkward, and you keep telling someone you find intimidating that you don’t feel charismatic to strike up a conversation with them, and they keep insisting you try and then scold you for being a bad conversationalist.
that’s a more accurate description than “she’s stalking him”.
I just noticed, but is your current Gravatar a picture of Dorothy with Krillin’s haircut and scars?
Imagine this really awkward person who never strikes up a conversation with, oogling you like a big ol hunk of meat all the time, and then volunteers to spot for you, only to continue to stare at you like a tasty hunk of meat.
We did see him get mad before. At the whole Joyce and breaking up with Raidah arc.
On the one hand, in Jacob’s situation *I* could display this kind of patience on a regular basis.
… but I would be doing it so I could delight in watching her squirm, and I don’t think that counts as the same thing.
I think he’s also a bit into Sarah, otherwise he might not have given her so many chances.
Sarah Sarah Sarah… Just talk to the guy
But she is determined to make it so difficult
Talking to people you find attractive is difficult!
(squints at Panel 2)
Is… is Jacob balding? There’s like gaps of scalp between the blonde fop and the part where he has some natural hair.
I think that’s just a hairstyle.
It is. Those are supposed to be short dreads which will leave parts of the scalp exposed from the braid, especially if the hair around them is cut usually a fade.
i just assumed it was an undercut/ fade
Jacob is disappointed but not surprised.
Oh, Sarah
She’s just using him to block wind so she has less drag and conserves energy when walking.
Sarah should ask Carla for a recommendation on some wheelies, on account of her need to escape her feelies.
FeelieWheelies! I like!
Did we talk about how Sarah treats Jacob much the way she accuses Joe of treating women? No personhood acknowledged, he’s just eye candy.
people have suggested that before. you can tell how accurate it is by how Joe has been too self-concious to even talk to any women and how it’s never been on Sarah’s mind since Jacob brought up being objectified.
He brought it up directly to her at the gym. She looked introspective for one panel, and then instantly forgot.
you can tell how she forgot by how she’s now too self-conscious to talk to him. When you find someone attractive and intimidating, it means you don’t acknowledge their personhood.
I think Sarah gets criticized too much for her relationship with Jacob. She felt extremely guilty for objectifying him to the point she completely gave up on pursuing him romantically for a while because she felt she didn’t deserve him. Even now she probably feels that way. Her antisocial traits are only even a problem because Jacob actually likes her and wants a real relationship with her which I think is ignored a bit here in the comments. It wouldn’t be difficult to avoid here if he was truly as creeped out as he says. He’s trying to break her walls to form a real connection. That’s why this keeps coming up.
In my personal opinion, she doesn’t deserve him. She has been manipulative to him directly and indirectly and has even been (rightly) called out for objectifying him. By all accounts, she is the one who keeps setting herself up in these antisocial situations and he is doing his best to ease that and she reacts in extremely negative ways. Does she even deserve this much patience from him? Any relationship they form seems like it would be emotionally abusive.
Wasn’t she objectifying him in the gym scene a few days ago? I don’t think that was just anxiety.
She does objectify him and that is a problem but I don’t see it as the real problem. Jacob doesn’t have to give her the time of day, he chooses to. Because he likes her. Sarah just doesn’t like herself enough to be unguarded around a great guy like Jacob so she defaults to staring at him and keeping distance. I think Sarah doesn’t get any empathy because her personality is awful, but she’s really just a shy girl with a crush here and that’s pretty relatable to me.
I also don’t like taking away Jacob’s agency. He is trying to pursue some kind of deeper relationship with Sarah. He doesn’t have to walk near her just cause they’re going to the same class. I doubt she was intentionally stalking him. He’s just not letting Sarah get away with being shy because he wants to be her friend. It’s just not working well.
and to add this, I also think he is kinda, on some level, enjoying this whole….thing
The readership really seems to be struggling with the idea that their personal dislike of Sarah might not be shared by Jacob.
Almost every instance of him trying to open up to Sarah since the timeskip has been met with “Shut up, busy looking at my eye candy.” She absolutely reduces his personhood. His very first appearance after the timeskip, the first time we’d seen him in years, was to hear Sarah say “Hey, remember how I pointed a Joyce-shaped cruise missile at you and Raidah? Mind being that cruise missile for my own emotional gratifucation again?”
Jacob is free to like or dislike Sarah, they’re fictional characters. But fucking miss me with “She’s just nervous,” when she’s clearly not too nervous to stand over him and stare at him while he’s working out, explicitly shooting down every attempt at conversation.
To elaborate on / clarify my point: I have genuine sympathy for all the folks who are waiting impatiently for an emotional catharsis (in this case, Jacob telling Sarah to go fuck herself and leave him alone forever) that just isn’t going to happen.
That must be very frustrating.
As someone who was once (well, thrice) a shy guy with a crush, I offer another possible factor: I didn’t know how to approach someone I was attracted to, and just froze up. It was awful. It took a long time to figure it out.
@Mark: sympathy via light physical contact.
I have mixed feelings about the aggressive pathologization of “creepiness”. On the one hand, absolutely the worst guys on the internet and real life started claiming it was a slur and the worst thing you could accuse a guy of being, which is… revealing, heh.
But on the other, absolutely there ARE a lot of perfectly benign shy people with social anxiety who were already constantly second guessing themselves and worrying about how they came across and worrying about the impact just passively crushing on someone might have on the other person — and those folks did not need more ammo for their self-doubt. 😞
that’s def something she needs to reflect on, jacob did mention it when she and joyce had lunch with him but at this point, he can’t be the only attractive person on campus sarah can tolerate it’d be easiest for her to move on and find osmeon to have a fling with
I hear Walky might be free.
personality aside, i think she prefers someone taller/buffer b/c she wants them to be an ‘obstacle course’ (which also is kinda objectifying but i imagine there would be some guys into it/wouldn’t mind), tho dang even if she somehow admitted that walky was hot i imagine walky would stay far away from her lol
She was in the group when he hair hit the right “intentionally long and messy” length and she was not immune.
*his hair
I think she’s said as much, though I might be confusing her with someone else (there is So Much DoA). Something about wanting to climb her boys like trees and not being so much a fan of boys climbing her like one.
Then again, she’s only like this around Jacob, therefore we can assume it is caused by something about Jacob *as a person*. He’s not the only hot dude on campus, after all.
She has something like a crush on him, but her objectification of him is a big part of it and needs to be disentangled.
Normally I find her really annoying when she’s interacting with Jacob but right now her anxiety and awkwardness is just too relatable
I think Sarah doesn’t want any form of emotional intimacy with a partner and thus only wants a purely physical relationship.
Jacob, sadly, is a big cuddly teddy bear of muscles who is all about emotions.
So what she wants is Joe, but the Joe from before his character growth. Might be why she claims it hasn’t happened.
She just hates that she’s regressed while someone she had a legitimate problem with is progressing.
Is she on record as finding anyone else hot?
ethan fling aside, it would be mildly amusing if she somehow hooked up with asher just to get under raidah and jen’s skin
Jason wants to be kind to her, and she doesn’t know what to do with that. She knows how to act around abusive people, but not this.
Are you serious?
“The way she accuses Joe”? Is that different from the way we saw early Joe treat women?
And no, she really doesn’t. She does objectify him and that is clearly treated as a character flaw, but she’s not aggressive about it as Joe was. She doesn’t show up out of nowhere to tell a stranger how much she wants to fuck him – as Rachel phrased it.
Yeah, that was some seriously fucked-up behavior Joe was engaging in months ago. Behavior for which he has apologized and he is actively attempting to better, but Sarah think she can declare that a mistake is forever.
Tall Rachel, Sarah, fucking Bloodrose, Joyce herself, none of these characters are required to accept Joe’s apology or spend time with him, and none of them do. Except Joyce, who has accepted Joe’s apology, who is interested in seeing how he grows as a person/character, and as far as we’ve seen he hasn’t gone looking for Sarah or Tall Rachel to try to get them to accept him. He just is in Sarah’s vicinity by coincidence and she hauls off and says “No, he cannot be forgiven.”
I hope we get back to Ethan post-coitus soon.
We need him to comment on the new Energon comics that are basically violent R-rated children’s cartoons.
🙂
Sarah, I don’t hate you, but why do you insist on making things so difficult?
Anxiety
At this point I want her to finally be ready to talk to him only to discover he’s been seduced by Joe.
If you are not used to talking to people, your crush is not a good place to start.
flashback to Sarah in highschool getting hurt repeatedly after trying to open up.
i’d def ppl not walk directly behind me either tho ia ssume most would pass me b/c i’m super slow at wlaking haha
NSFW
I gave into the Demons. Joyce Butt.
This must be a Joe dream…or maybe a Dorothy one. 😉
A Dorothy dream where she IS Joe
I really like the details on the back like the shoulder blades and the spine bit. I also appreciate that she looks like a real human with real human amounts of fat and real human proportions. Thanks Yotomoe
I know this is just supposed to be a hornypost but I just want to say I like your art style
Nice!
Damn, good even by your high standards.
This is beautiful but not in a dehumanizing way.
It’s just nudity as a snapshot, as if we happened to spot her in a quiet moment.
So. Very. Cute. ^____^
You draw a nice butt.
Excellent but
That’s really good.
Spoiler! Oh no she has a butt! :O
*steamweed shows joyce-shock face
That’s perfect!! 👌🏿🔥🔥
😘
Love it when we see more of the campus.
I think the first time we saw the greenhouse Willis mentioned how much of a pain it is to draw.
By the “Conservation of Scenery” rule we’re going to see the background for ar least a few more strips.
Jacob keeps doing a lot of lifting in trying to patch this, but… at this rate even he will get tired of trying, too
I’m surprised he’s still bothering. I’m personally sick of Sarah just being a garbage human and hope we don’t see much of her beyond this.
Calm down, the majority of the characters on this strip has acted like garbage humans at one point or another. That is kind of one of the points of this strip.
God damn some of these people are broken
I would say most people are broken in one way or another. It’s the human condition.
Yeah, but Jacob’s hot, so we forgive him.
…only “some”?! Are we even reading the same comic?!
Oi! She’s legging it!
Sarah has gone from being someone who was standoffish and private to someone who actively and knowingly hates any form of emotional connection to anyone else.
I wonder if this connects to Radiah’s belief she kicked out her roommate for reasons other than concern for her mental health.
The continuing saga of Sarah completely effing fumbling it
It’s already been established that Sarah suffers from SPFP. Jacob should be more understanding of the position she’s in.
… oh, wait, he correctly identifies that position in panel 1.
This is getting old.
You know what really gets old? When you brain locks up when you encounter someone you find attractive.
And what doesn’t resolve itself? See previous answer.
You know what really gets old? Someone self-aware enough to realize this ( especially when openly stated to them ) constantly putting themselves in this position and expecting the other to just accept it when they’re brain locks up.
You know what really gets old? Many forms of organic life, due to cellular decay over long periods of time.
And you know what else gets old? This segue to our sponsor!
other than someone having a crush on a friend, not that i came across ppl super attractive to where i’d be flustered just being near them in highschool i’d prolly actually avoid them or stay outta their way bc they’d prolly be the ‘popular’ type that’d have their own group of friends anyway, even in a non ‘fangirls following’ anime cliche type of thing XD
Dumbing of Age, Volume Any: It’d Be Way Less Creepy If You Just Talked To Me
Dumbing of Age, Volume Any-Plus-One: That Is A Chance I’m Willing To Take
What a big chicken! But it’s nice to see her human side.
Sarah the incel lmfao
feels like this comment section is half full of puriteens who are saying being sexually attracted to someone is objectifying them.
Some of it is probably that, but it comes up with Sarah because she goes farther than that. Focusing on him just for his body, while not being able to talk to him and ignoring his explicitly stated dislike of that.
Not all sexual attraction is like that and we don’t get that reaction to other cases of sexual attraction in the comic.
I mean. But MOST of Sarah’s objectifying has stayed in the privacy of her own head, or at least far away from Jacob. (And tbqh I am not really convinced that Sarah actually thinks of her vibrator as Other Jacob, I kiiiind of think that was just something she said to convey her intention to fantasize about him to Joyce, which has now become a running joke.)
So far we’ve had the one instance where her staring at and drooling over him was obvious enough for him to notice, and he asked her politely to knock it off. We will see how she ultimately responds to this criticism in the future, and that will say a lot about her respect for his boundaries.
But in the meantime, yeah, there’s a real Neo Puritan streak running through this comment section — lots of hand-wringing about masturbating anywhere but the privacy of your own bedroom, and characters getting lambasted for being too openly interested in sex. Just recently it seemed like Lucy was getting an unreasonable amount of flack for being too enthusiastic about sleeping with Walky.
(No one directly called her a slut or anything, but there was a lot of baseless speculation about how she was using him and didn’t care about his feelings, instead of… being caught up in her OWN feelings and a bit oblivious to the anxieties Walky was deliberately hiding from her.)
I’m not sure it’s so much neo-puritan as just an excuse seized on to attack characters already disliked for other reasons.
Stuff can be two things, thejeff!
But no, genuinely the wider trend is definitely Neo Puritan. Loads of young folk have gotten very comfortable with asserting that all public spaces should be Family Friendly by default, even if those spaces have a clearly posted age restriction, because the need to protect children’s innocence should be prioritized over everything else, and mostly seeming not to realize that “obscenity” and “inappropriate for children” was always going to mean “even the most vanilla transgression, like simply being trans or holding your non-pericishetero, gender-nonconforming partner’s hand in public”.
The wider trend is just also evident in this comment section, where Sarah is sexually harassing Jacob now just by being in his presence while sexually attracted to him.
Keep those ad hominems coming.
In the comic at the top of this page, Jacob says Sarah’s behavior makes him uncomfortable. She is continuing to view him as a pretty purely sexual object, like he described in the strip you linked at me, and when he tries to do something more about, because Sarah again told him she’s not interested in talking to him, just lusting after him, she bolts.
But please, tell me more how I’m a Puritan for agreeing with someone who is saying “I am feeling objectified.”
if you see today’s strip as her objectifying him, then yes, you’re acting like a puriteen. “She is continuing to view him as a pretty purely sexual object” you made that up.
Why do you consider Jacob’s discomfort so irrelevant that you attack anyone who sympathizes with him over it?
And then treating objectifying someone in your own head the same as harassing them in real life. It feels like some people think Jacob has been reading the comic and knows everything he wasn’t there for.
It doesn’t help that it’s also half full of people who just flat out hate Sarah.
+1 to this. Absolutely also where I’m at. It’s as if that time in class where she started fantasizing about him instead of listening had involved her grabbing him by the front of his shirt to tell him her graphic thoughts or demand he make them a reality, instead of… something she clearly felt embarrassed about after she tuned back in and realized she’d lost track of the conversation.
Sarah, at this rate Lucy is going to snatch him up and you’ll be kicking yourself for decades to come.
Why is he carrying a mop on his head?
Ugh, really?